A Guide to Flirting with Girls… (and Scoring)
Examples of How to Flirt and Take a “Hot” Girl Home
Let’s face it- if you want to talk to a girl, hook up with her, and get her back to your place, then you need to know how to
flirt with a girl.
We’ve all been there… you start talking to a girl, it seems to be going okay, but there just doesn’t seem to be any “chemistry” and she doesn’t make it easy for, she’s not giving you any signs (she is- I’ll explain them below) and soon you run out of steam and decide it’s probably better to end the conversation than risk the awkwardness of running out of things to say or being rejected.
If you don’t know how to flirt with a girl, eventually you will wind up boring her and losing her interest, and she’ll wind up with some other guy who knows how to turn her on by being playful and flirtatious.
I speak from experience. I’m a decent looking guy who is in good shape, makes good money, and has lots of friends… but until I learned how to flirt with girls I was always stuck in the friend zone.
If you’re shy, insecure, or just clueless about how to “spark attraction” in a woman that you’re talking to, then you’re going to enjoy this article, as I’m going to lay out an easy to “action plan” for how to flirt.
What is Flirting?
I think that one of the reasons so many guys struggle with flirting is because they don’t really know what it is. Instead, they think it’s the cheesy dialogue they see on soap operas… or worse, they think flirting means that you give a woman over the top compliments.
“Complimenting” is NOT how to flirt. In fact, until a woman feels attraction for you, you should probably avoid complimenting her, and instead, concentrate on an “action plan” I’m about to give you below.
So what exactly is flirting?
Flirting is a fun, playful way of communicating with a woman that lets her know you’re interested in her… without coming right out and saying it.
Instead you do things like:
- Tease her
- Banter with her
- Turn your conversation with her into a sort of “game”
- Become “partners in crime”
I’m going to talk about each of these things, and give you some examples you can use tonight.
The Art of “Teasing”
The easiest way to begin flirting with a woman is to begin to playfully tease her. The teasing should be good hearted and fun, and should not be offensive or rude.
It’s always best to tease a woman on something she says, the way she is acting, or something you notice about her.
When you learn to listen and observe a girl you begin to quickly find this you can flirt and tease her about.
Things like:
- Being “blonde”
- Seeming “bossy”
- Being “gullible” or “naïve”
- Having a “wild side”
Or you can simply challenge her. A great way to flirt with a girl is to have a “mock” completion with her over something. For instance, I’ve goaded smart girls into having a spelling bee with me… its just a fun, playful way to get the two of you engaged in some sort of “game.”
You can also tease a woman without ever opening your mouth. You can tease a woman by getting in her way so she can’t walk past you. You can swat her with a straw, tickle her, or do the old “you’ve got something on your shirt” routine.
Flirting Lines You Can Use Tonight…
When you’re first learning how to flirt with girls it’s good to have some “canned” flirting lines you can use at any given time. Sometimes it’s hard to think of original things to say.
Here are a few lines I like to use to “tease” women quickly in the conversation.
- If a girl says something nerdy I will say “You usually hang out at the library don’t you?”
- If a girl spills her drink I will say “Bartender, I think you need to cut her off”
- If a girl is acting a little spoiled say “Looks like someone put their cranky pants on this morning
These are just a few examples of lines that you can say. I actually put together a “cheat sheet” of good teasing and banter lines that you can use in various situations.
You can download a free copy of The Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet.
Body Language Flirting
One of the most important things to remember when you’re learning how to flirt with a girl is that what you’re body is saying is almost important as what is coming out of your mouth.
A lot of times, guys are too nervous talking to women, and there body language displays bad posture, nervous ticks, unconfident eye contact… all of these things can undermine what you are saying to a girl, and make her think you’re really not as “cool” as you’re pretending to sound.
This is why it is important to display flirtatious body language along with the words that come out of your mouth and the teasing and banter lines.
Examples of Body Language Flirting:
- Slowly smiling at her (not an obnoxious or nervous grin)
- Briefly touching her as you talk
- Appearing relaxed and laid back
- Holding eye contact
If you combine these things with good verbal flirting skills then you’ll do a great job of getting the girl to give you the signals that she likes you. I even wrote an entire article of Non Verbal Flirting Tips.
Flirting Signs to Look For
It can be a major main to be left wondering if a girl is flirting with you or just being nice… so below are some of the best indicators.
If I’m talking to a girl and start to sense a “vibe” here is a video explaining what I look for to determine if she is feeling it to.
The video actually gives 20 signs a girl likes you. It is important that you’re able to spot and recognize these signs because it allows you to feel comfortable moving to the “next level” with a girl.
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